Tuesday, January 26, 2010
Make Disappointments Your Strength
Who do you become, when things don't go your way? I am facinated by some of the studies done on differant personalities, and how they react to circumstances, when our plans get messed up. Understanding the different reactions people have becomes easier, as you understand that people handle stress in different ways. But let's look at some of the best ways to handle issues, no matter what your usual reaction would have been. First of all, you must come face to face with the pain of disappointment! Then, you must really take charge, look at the solution, and not the problem, understand, that something better is about to happen, and get prepared for what is ahead, because if you do that, you will get the results you want and need, and you will not be overcome with the problem! Inside every disappointment lies a precious gem of wisdom. Avoid using words like failure, disaster, things never go right for me, I can't, it's never, etc. My fourth grade teacher was right when she said, "never say can't!" The Bible says YOU CAN DO ALL THINGS through Christ who strengthens you! Forget the past and BLAZE ahead! With every negative thought throughout this day.....try to catch it! And when you do, turn it around and then write it down! Address your challenges! Look at them as a stepping stone to your success! As long as failure doesn't stop you.....SUCCESS will be there waiting for you! HERES TO YOUR SUCCESS!
